It never ceases to amaze me that the one with the addictions is always the one bullying and attacking the supposed mental problems of the one who has to suffer through their chemical imbalance whether it is drugs, alcohol, food, gambling, shopping, whatever. Exactly when does the 12 step of owning up to one's own addiction and the destruction left in its wake kick in?
Most abusers in any place have some mess in their lives they are busy trying to blame on someone else.
No one else told you to put that chip in your mouth or swig that 40.
Only in America.